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what to do... Rant warning.. advice appreciated.

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what to do... Rant warning.. advice appreciated.

Postby Hectrae » Thu Nov 05, 2009 5:44 pm

I HATE MY BOSS!!!! arg!!! she's such a bitch!! everything that she says to me, she says in the most demeaning manor ever! literally everything! she makes me feel like an idiot, a clueless brainless idiot! and i know i'm not. i can DO the job! it's my second week so yeah i'm slower than she is but that doesnt mean i'm freaking stupid! aand this is my second job. i work the bar at night and i work the grocery store during the day. well acctually i work the deli in the grocery store. and its the damned grocery store that i hate. i need the job though. cause well. no one else i live with has any sort of income. which is hard. really really damned hard. on my way home from work i stopped in at the canadian mental health association to make an appointment for intake to start seeing a councelor regularily. and i started bawling infront of the woman making my appointment! then when i got home i ended up crying for another good half hour. three weeks ago i quit subway because one of the guys there sexually assaulted me, so i got the two other jobs. so i'm still dealing with jerk wad and what he did to me, aaand supporting my dad(who cant work because he's depressed and tried commiting suicide twice) and boyfriend and now to top everything off i have a stupid bitch of a boss that makes me feel innadequate. i HATE it!! GAH!!! so at the moment i'm completely and utterly frazzeled and breaking down, and i have no idea as to what i should do.... i want to quit the grocery store, but the bar doesnt pay enough to pay the bills. and i dont want to leave the bar cause, well i love it. gah!!
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Re: what to do... Rant warning.. advice appreciated.

Postby Gabriela_Shadowsong » Tue Dec 01, 2009 7:39 am

It doesn't sound like you have too mant options... but maybe ask your bf to do something too? I mean you shouldn't take all of this on your shoulders, that breaks people down.
Sorry I cannot be of more help but unfortunately can't do much from here
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Postby Vixie » Tue Mar 09, 2010 7:30 am

thats hard! you should ignore your boss, she sounds like a total spaz.
depression does not stop anyone from getting a job, yes its a pain in the ass to have, but people who have even worse depression (bipolar) are still out there working, plus it takes their minds off things, so it would be good for you dad to get out there and do something he loves.
God: everytime i try to talk to someone its always "sorry this" and "forgive me that" and "i'm not worthy"...
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Re: what to do... Rant warning.. advice appreciated.

Postby Yin Yang » Mon Apr 26, 2010 12:27 am

Yup. i know someone who has problem :| but it keeps roofs over people's heads xD

hang in there :o bad economies are NOT the time to quit and back down.

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Postby misfitbaby » Tue May 04, 2010 4:17 pm

I am really sorry about that D: Perhaps you should tell your boyfriend about everything and ask him to get a job so you don't have to deal with so much? D:
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